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Updated 9/08 [F 29] I wanted to share just a bit of an experience and a semi experience, I had, when I was almost 21 I had a fantastic affair with a man who was my trainer at a posh restaurant we worked for. It was a very brief encounter but glorious. Apparently he was born in England I believe and was uncut. I remember going to see him at the hotel he was staying at. We practically devoured one another as soon as I walked in. As I was giving him one of my best blow jobs ever, I felt a tap on my shoulder, with him telling me he was uncut (I had not noticed as it was really dark in the room) so he asked I switch my technique and told me he has never been brought to ejaculation by a blow job. Well that did it for me, I was determined to make this man come in my mouth! It also helped I had my tongue pierced as was (still am) very skillful with giving head. Mission accomplished! I left that man wide eyed and stunned! It has been nearly 10 yrs since we had our encounter, and he still remains one of my best lovers to date.
Updated 2/08 [M 63] I am un-cut. We had our son circumcised when he was 6 mo. old (we adopted him at 5 1/2 mo.) because I thought it would help him avoid the problem and embarrassment I've experienced, premature ejaculation. Our reasoning was; the penis head would be desensitized over the years by rubbing against underwear, etc. so that when he started to have sexual relations, he'd be able to enjoy the experience. Now, after quite a bit of research on PE, I know how wrong I was, and wish we had left him intact.
Updated 1/08 [M 61] Up until I was about 15, I couldn't get my foreskin back, though my prick was growing nicely. At boarding school there was plenty of chance
to see other pricks at various stages of development (and erection!) and
plenty of experimental wanking with other boys, so I knew the difference
between circumcised and uncut cocks.
Updated 11/07 [F] i would like to share my thoughts on circumcision. living in the UK as a schoolgirl in the seventy's i or my friends had never seen a circumcised penis until a boy joined our class. His folks were military and moved around lots. Richard was good looking it soon was a contest with all the girls wanting to be his girlfriend until one day, I'm not proud of my part in this poor boys teasing i was one of the ring leaders, the boys told us much to all our amusement in the showers after sports that they had seen Richards winkie. it was tiny and skinless. i gave him the nick name skinless winkie we made him show us it many times as we laughed cornered him made him masturbate as we made him repeat his nick name. if the poor soul didn't comply we would beat him until he entertained us...here in Scotland circumcision is still rare my two boys Will be keeping their foreskins intact.
[M 37] I am not circumcised, but due to my girth a third of my penis head is exposed. Several of my sexual partners have commented that they preferred a circumcised man. Because of this I have often pondered getting cut. We have two boys and my wife insisted they be circumcised. After the birth of our second son I had a vasectomy. I seriously considered getting circumcised then, but in the end I couldn't do it.
[F] My experience of penises has mostly been with cut ones, but my lover of a few years is uncut and I just love it. Before him I never gave uncut penises much thought, I guess through lack of opportunity.
[M] The problem with adult circumcision is that it's normative and doesn't address the brutality of Circumcision which should correctly be called Male Genital Mutilation(MGM). As a man who was mutilated at birth I can attest to the fact that it is miserable for some of us. The real question is how does one rationalize the removal of a perfectly healthy functioning part of another persons body with out their consent? Regardless of the possible so-called good reasons for amputating a man's foreskin the reality is that it is surgery and as with all surgery there are risks. Here we get into the game of statistics and what the risks are. I'm not going to argue about what the statistics are because it doesn't matter if the chances of a bad outcome are 1 in a 100, 1 in a 1000, 1 in a million or what ever, if you are the 1 it might as well be absolute. The problem I experience is that way too much skin was removed for me to be comfortable even when not erect. How can one possibly know how much "so-called" extra skin a boy has at birth? before his penis reaches adult size? Skin that should normally be on my scrotum is pulled all the way up onto the shaft of my penis within an inch or so from the glans. As you can imagine this does not feel very pleasant to either party involved. Shaving is not an option as I always end up with some cuts and by the time they heal I have stubble, which is worse. My erectons have been painful all my life. As a child I would wake up in the middle of the night crying for no reason and in the morning my penis would have a sore spot where I had scratched it raw. I now realize that this was from the erections that all boys get at night when they are growing, and I was unconsciously scratching the overstretched skin that couldn't contain the erectons of my growing penis. How can one possibly know how much "so-called" extra skin a boy has at birth? before his penis reaches adult size? After seeing numerous pictures of intact adult penises it is apparent that there is a huge amount of variation in the amount of foreskin on the adult penis from no coverage when erect to complete coverage. What would the men that have no coverage when erect be like if all their "extra" foreskin were cut off in the flaccid state?
Updated 6/07 [M] I am circumcised and was at birth. I would not know what it is like to have a foreskin to pull back to show the head of my penis.
updated 5/07 [M] I was circumcised at about the age of three in 1941 at the Jewish Hospital in Manchester. My mother implied my "op" was for medical reasons, apparently my foreskin was very inflamed and sore.I was always conscious of of my circumcision, especially, in the changing rooms at school,where I noticed most boys were uncircumcised. Gradually, I became quite proud of my "cut" state,more -so when women liked my size and circumcision. It never dawned on me, that some women preferred a circumcised male until I read an edition of H&E in the early seventies.A female naturist was recounting how she disapproved of female breasts and the male genitalia flapping with every movement when they were playing games, She approved of women who shaved the mons pubis and men who kept their foreskins pulled back, quid pro quo for women shaving their pubes - she said it was erotic.She went on to say that she thought the circumcised penis added interest to the male physique.Apparently, her husband and both her little boys were circumcised and looked better than their friends who were uncircumcised.
Updated 4/07 [M] It is hard to believe such a small piece of skin can make such a difference in your life. I learned early the difference of cut and uncut. That first shower in gym class was the start of it all. I was the only boy with a foreskin and the name calling began. Even out of class i was laughed at so of course all the girls were in on the joke {my penis}. It was terrible. By the time i was 20 my mind was made up to be circumcisized so at 23 it was done. I never knew about different styles of cuts but mine was freehand and left a little loose. Now i am so proud.
[M 43] The most embarrassing thing that ever happened to me was in the 7th grade. thats when gym class was separated boys from girls. After class we all got to take showers, I could have crawled in a hole and died. I was the only boy in class with a foreskin on my penis and it happened to be extremely long. Every other boy was circumcised but not me and the name calling, teasing, being made fun of was almost more than I could handle. Even out of gym class they teased me so of course the girls were in on it too.I hated myself. It had a bad odor no matter how often i washed, and it was just plain ugly. Girls would turn me down for dates, then i would find out why. so at the age of 23 I had myself circumsized. The best thing I have ever done. I slowly got self confidence and am now proud of my body.
Updated 1/07 [M 40] In the circumcision debate I am one who has lived both ways. I was 23 when I had finally had enough embarrassment to get it done. After living with a penis i was ashamed for my girl friends to see i now have no problem being naked anywhere. And it feels looks smells great.
Updated 10/06 [M 56]I am a 56 year old male. I was circumcised at birth, and I have spent my whole life missing my foreskin.I envy those lucky men who were allowed to keep all their parts. Since the advent of the internet, I have been able to learn what a foreskin really is; how it functions and how the wonderful structure enhances lovemaking for BOTH partners.
[M] I was appalled when I first found out how high America's circumcision rate is, thankfully it has taken the plummet lately but all the same I still can not help finding it shockingly high.
Updated 8/06 [M 34] I’m a 34 year old swedish guy who has been circumcised as an adult. As long as I can remember I wished that I always could have my foreskin rolled back. I really don’t know why but somehow I figured it looked nice and felt fresh. When I was in my early teens I saw couples in porno magazines were the most males were circumcised. Then I realised that circumcision was the solution whith the nice and even shaft skin and the liberated head not covered by anything. I read everything about circumcision, made my decision when I was 23 and I finally was circumcised. It was better then I would dream of and I have never regret it. Now, ten years later I have done a revision to get my shaft skin more streched and the head always are visible, even when it’s flaccid. I’m proud to be circumcised.
Updated 7/06 [M] I always wished that I had been circumcised as a child, however, in my 30's
and with encouragement from my Philippine girlfriend, I was circumcised one
Friday at High Noon. The surgery was performed with local anaesthetic and
the worst part was the injection of the anaesthetic. Otherwise the recovery
was almost without discomfort. I was back at work on Monday. We are both
very pleased with the result. I don't feel that my sexual pleasure has been
diminished - in fact oral sex and masturbation are much improved. I have no
regrets. I had my circumcision primarily for aesthetic reasons - hygiene was
a minor factor, but I had been in the habit of keeping my foreskin
constantly retracted and very clean, so odours were virtually eliminated.
Circumcision is not necessary for hygiene although it is obviously easier
with a circumcised penis. Women who are careless about personal hygiene can
develop unpleasant odours which would deter any man from giving them oral
sex, yet we don't advocate removing their inner labia as a solution. I
prevented my wife from circumcising our son after birth because I think it's
a nasty thing to do to a baby, and I wanted to leave my son with a choice. I
think it's just wonderful to have a circumcised penis - it still fascinates
me 20 years after it was done.
A continuation of the letter aboveOften, late at night, before I go to bed, I explore some topic on the
Internet. One night I found your website and was impressed with quality of
some of the contributions to your section on male circumcision. So much of
the discussion on this topic is coloured by emotive language, untruths and
ill-informed supposition. There are arguments on both sides - not every male
is happy with his status, but if your parents left you with a choice, at
least you can choose which way to be. As an adult, I made my choice to have
myself circumcised and I am extremely happy with the result. Not every man
wants to have his foreskin cut off, so let each make his own decision, for
his own reasons, but let's keep the nonsense out so that the decision is
made on the most rational basis possible. Some people claim that an
uncircumcised penis slides in and out of its foreskin during intercourse.
This is rubbish - my experience is that, upon penetration, the mouth of the
vagina grips the moveable skin of the penis so firmly that it is drawn back
hard (so hard that it can take your breath away) and that the oscillating
movements of intercourse only vary the degree to which he skin of the penis
is drawn back. The foreskin never, ever covers the glans during intercourse.
Whoever dreamt that yarn either hasn't a penis or hasn't had sex. It just
is't like that at all.
Updated 3/06 [M] I am an uncircumcised male, and I have to wear jockies with extra cloth on the inside because my foreskin is so sensitive
Updated 2/06 [M 72] I'm an English guy, aged 72 now, but I still have many thoughts about sex. I was robbed of my foreskin at around age 4yrs, 1937, I think I peed the bed or something! Nevertheless, I think it ruined my manhood: I constantly imagine what it would feel like to have my foreskin dragged back and forth by a lovely tight quim, to have my frenulum pulled back tight, until I fired my sperm into the place it should be!
Updated 8/05 [F 45] I just wanted to add my comments to your circumcision page. I'm a 45 yr old married woman, but before I married I was very sexually active with a number of men.
[M 17] I am a 17 year old Jewish male, born in the former USSR where Jewish practices were mostly shunned. I was not circumcised and for many years had wanted to be, but was afraid of the possible pain. Finally, I decided that since the last summer vacation of my high school life was at hand and i had about a month with nothing to do, I talked to my dad who contacted a rabbi who specialized in adult circumcisions. I quickly began to research the process online, and found that although most people say that it takes 4-6 weeks to fully heal, there is not much post-operative pain, so I was not worried. When the time came, I went to the clinic and was introduced to the rabbi and urologist who would oversee the operation and had some questions answered. I was not nervous at all--BIG MISTAKE. I didn't mind the initial anesthetic shots, and soon could not feel my penis, but it turned out that i had a hyper-sensitive glans, so that even with several! times the regular dose, I could still feel it. My other option was to have the operation under general anaesthesia, which I did the next week. The rabbi and urologist were joined by an anesthesiologist, and the procedure went fine. When I awoke, the anesthetic (local+morphine, I believe) was still very active, so I felt fine for the next few hours. I was sitting on my computer, chatting with my friends, when the anesthetic began to wear off and all hell broke loose.
Updated 6/05 [M 41] I was circumcised (and had a vasectomy at the same
time) 6 years ago at age 35. The vasectomy was a
mutual choice with my wife, but circumcision was my
choice.
Updated 5/05 [M 42] 10 years ago I underwent a circumcision operation because my foreskin was too tight. Yes I know I left it a little late. Because of my age at the time of the operation I can give clear experiences of both before and after the op.
[M 62] I'm a male 62 been uncut all my life. I love it. Never had a women complain because I'm that way. Some do love it better uncircumcised.
Updated 11/04 [M] (M) I live in England UK and was born when circumcision was more popular. A
lot of boys got cut as babies Back then I felt embarrassed when I started
dating girls. It was obvious to me that the foreskin was intended to work
backwards and forwards over the glans during intercourse and stimulate the
female and I couldn't do that for them. I only had sex with three girls
before I married one who became my wife. At first I felt very naked and
rather aware I was missing something. But all my partners reassured me that
circumcised was fine by them. Apparently it felt much better without
foreskin, because there was nothing to get in the way. My wife says she
enjoys the friction of the glans rim, and we create positions to increase
that, which makes it delightful for both of us. There's nothing like the
pleasure of giving pleasure in this situation it's a real turn on.
Updated 3/04 [M] I was circumcised when I was 39. I had been married by that time 21 years. After we were married about 3 years my wife had a lover and when I asked her she told me he was circumcised. The combination of seeing a couple of my high school classmates who were circumcised and the fact that her lover had been made me want to be. It was done in Europe and by someone who was not very expert in this field. The result is that my skin is not tight when I'm erect. I'm still married to the same woman and during love making it still feels better if she holds my skin back tight, much the same way she did before I was circumcised. She did this at my request. I really think to get the full benefit of circumcision for both partners the skin should be tight when the penis is erect. I'm thinking about getting recircumcised, even though I'm over 60 now. But if I do it will be by someone expert in the field. I might also! add that in the last few years my same wife had several encounters with an one uncut male so I guess I conclude that perhaps there is no real preference on her part whether the partner is circumcised.
Updated 2/04 [M 18] I'm a 18 year old living in Australia, and these days it is uncommon for most guys to get circumcised. As such I wasn't cut at birth, however even though this left me in the majority, I still wasn't happy. Foreskins are a nuisance, they get dirty even if you clean them lots and they are easily irritated. Anyway two years ago I had it done and never looked back. It's more comfortable, looks better and I actually prefer sex while circumcised. My girl friend didn't have any experience with a circumcised guy before me but she says she loves it as well. Seriously, to anyone considering it I don't know why all the controversy. It's a minor operation which results in a lifetime of benefits. I'd recommend it to anyone.
Updated 1/04 [M 52] I was not
circumcised when I was born, and all during my youth I was embarrassed
about my status. When I was 25 yrs old, my Wife said, it it bothers you
that much, get circumcised, and I did. It was the absolute best thing a
could have done for myself. I feel much more self confident, solely
because I look like all the other guys.
Updated 7/03 [M] There's some interesting things on the Circlist website on adult male circumcision - medical, cultural, and historical. My curiosity started years ago when I first read about the subject in the National Geographic, of all places! Surprisingly, they used to include the topic at every opportunity. Perhaps there was someone on the editorial panel with an interest. Anyway, Circlist goes further into all aspects. You can also join the discussion group; I've just done so and it's very informative. There are also some truly amazing images which would make Adonis envious. Membership requires submission of contributions to the forum; I'll have to do something soon otherwise I'll be getting a reminder.
Updated 12/02 [M] Yes there are several different types or styles of circumcision depending on how much of the foreskin is removed and whether or not it is the more sensitive inner skin or outer skin and the placement of the circumcision scar. Some circumcisions completely remove the frenulum and others leave it intact.
[M 68] This is my second letter concerning male circumcision and you printed the first. This is a follow up. I am a 68 year old male. I was circumcised when I was about 55. One of the bad things I had heard about circumcision was the fact that the penis head got dry and almost callused, which reduced the sensitiveness. So I was prepared. After everything healed up and when several months had passed, about every other day, I started rubbing Creamy Vasoline into the head in the mornings. Naturally I found that it didn't stay there very long because of the constant contact with my clothing. So I started covering the complete genital area with a very thin piece of plastic. Normally I cut up a large plastic bag into squares about ten inches square and wear it all day. Now my penis head or glans whichever you prefer is still pink and tender like it was before circumcision. I just thought that maybe some one contemplating circumcision would like to hear my system.
Updated 11/02 [M] One Man's unfortunate experience JEL Considering circumcision? Don't do it. Besides being irreversible, it is like cutting out over 75% of the feeling in sex.
Updated 10/02 [M] I was circumcised at the age of 55 becasue the foresksin was getting tight, and I had wanted the circumcision done for years. My surgeon did an excellent job with a high tight operation with the stitches right next to the head. I had no trouble with post operative care and at night would wear a very tight pair of nylon shorts to prevent erection. The first erection I permitted revealed that the surgeon had removed too much skin and as a ressult my penis bent to one side slightly amd was shorter than before. I used a vacumn device to stretch the skin and in about two months, eliminated the bend. But never regained the original length. As a plus, My penis become about 25% thicker all the way up to and including the head. Masturbation is no problem as I use plenty of lubrication and in fact, is probably more intense. I do not regret one minute being circumcised at an
older age.
Updated 1/02 [M 53] I'm a 53 year old white male who was circumcised at age 43. Ever since
I was old enough to take showers after gym class I envied my circumcised
friends. To me getting rid of the hood on my penis seemed to be a symbol of
sexual freedom. I matured early. My first ejaculation was at age 11, but I
had been masturbating since age 6. I had an extremely high sexual drive and
longed for sex--any kind of sex! When I grew to adulthood my libido calmed
down some, but I didn't lose my desire to permanently alter the look and feel
of my penis. With my wife's encouragement I said goodbye to my foreskin in
1992, and I must say I have had only a few regrets. It took awhile for the
head of my penis to de-sensitize, and I no longer had the convenience of a
semen reservoir. Let me explain. Previous to the surgery I could jack-off
anywhere and catch the cum by tugging gently and squeezing the foreskin
together, forming a pouch so to speak. After the hood was gone I had little
choice but to "point and shoot!" I must say this did cut down on my
occasional opportunities to jack-off in "high risk" settings. (For instance,
I once masturbated openly while seated on a commercial airplane next to a
very attractive woman who had dozed off, but whose faced was still turned in
my direction, only inches away from my throbbing dick. Had she suddenly
awakened, there would have been no way to hide my activity from her. The
risk tremendously heightened the sexual experience, giving me a
body-paralyzing, breath stealing orgasm--which I kept tidy by pulling the
foreskin over the head of my penis as I came. I would then carefully replace
my penis in my pants and zip up, cleaning up as necessary later in private.)
Yes, that was a sacrifice but the pleasure of enjoying the freedom of
circumcision was worth it. Besides, if one thinks deeply enough, sexual
creativity is boundless!
Updated 11/01 [M 20] I am a male, 20 years old and uncircumcised. I have been giving the thought to having the procedure done for some time now; on my own volition. I have however, upon further investigation, concluded that there is no foreseeable advantage in circumcision for me. Personally, the aesthetic reasons are the main drive for me to have the procedure done, but that alone is not enough to convince me to go through with it.
I have recently come to the realization that it really doesn't matter what you're penis looks like, just that it is clean and healthy. I mean, people have been saying (most of them with small penises!) that size doesn't matter. Well, then why sould a foreskin? (not perhaps the most brilliant of analogies, but it suits)
[M] I feel very bad for the men who are circumcised. I can't imagine enjoying sex as much without the foreskin sliding back and forth. Also, having a foreskin means the penis has many diffferent looks. This makes for some enjoyable viewing for both sexes. I am 50 years old and soon to be divorced. I an sure glad that I am getting back into dating with my foreskin intact.
Updated 10/01 [F 26] I'm 26, married and consider myself pretty
sexually experienced with men (but only with my hubby since marriage). I've
read, listened to and had discussions regarding 'size' in our male
counterparts and its effect on the quality of a woman's sex life. I think a
BIG factor is being overlooked and I think this is a good question to add to
your site. Personnally speaking, having had sex with five men since I was
16 (including my hubby), my all around favorite "penis-type" is the
uncirumsized penis!!! Three of these guys were circumsized, while my
"first" and my "hubby" aren't circumsized. The sex is MUCH better with the
uncut guys!!! I'd definitely trade in a thick 7 incher that's cut for a
normal sized 6 incher that's uncut! The sex was SO good with my first
boyfriend that I couldn't stay away from him....breaking up was really hard
and at the time I thought it was because he was my first. Then I dated and
slept with three other guys over the following years until I met my hubby.
These three were all nice guys, goodlooking and all turned out to be cut.
During sex they all did the SAME thing thrusting the hell out of me until I
hurt, they all lacked sensitivity and were just hard to get close to, and
would keep on going like the energizer bunny, it was horrible. I got so
sore. During Junior yeaar in college, I met my husband and found him to be
uncut when we went to bed. NO BIG DEAL i thought until we actually started
doing it. The sex was as good if not better than the sex with my first
(probably since my hubby was also a lot more experienced at age 20). And
both my hubby and my first were lightyears ahead of the circumsized guys.
In addition to the sex, the chemistry clicked as well and I was pretty
determined to hang on to him - and so we married even before we both
graduated college. The sex was and continues to be just awesome! Now, four
years later, I have a three yearold son and one yearold daughter. I
DEFINITELY made sure that my son was NOT cut. Now I know that there is no
way for a woman to tell if a man is cut or uncut until they get naked for
the first time - too late for the discerning. BUT the medical commmunity
could improve the odds...and the QUALITY of sex for future generations of
women by ending the practice of circumcion except where its somehow
medically necessary to save a little guy. I think its a horrible, backward
practice (no offense toward any religious group, am refering to gentile
genitals!).
Updated 11/1/00 [M 38] I am a male 38 and am uncircumcised.
Many years ago I heard a radio program about the historical basis to
circumcism. It discussed the religious aspects in depth and then it
discussed the twentieth century.
Updated 9/4/00 [M] To the adult who wondered about this procedure, as an adult, I offer the following advice. Contact a local synagogue, and inquire as to the services of the person who performs the ritual circumcisions in his city. The Mohel (moyel) is by far the most qualified for this job. Even though both pediatricians and urologists both can do this procedure, if it were me, I'd pick the most tested professional, but I had mine done at the age of eight days, and don't remember a thing!
Updated 4/30/00 [M40]
Until the age of 39, I was uncircumcised. I loved having sex and at times I made love with her with my foreskin retracted as much as I could. That feeling aroused me very much. Then I met my current wife and for religeous reasons she asked me to be circumcised. I took the operation, which was no problem at all. Only during the healing process it was hard to control my erections due to the new sensation (and the stitches). After a few weeks, my penis was fully healed and we gave it a try. Wow, what a feeling, I could feel a lot more and it seems that my penis hardly fits in my skin. After a while the exitement of this has deminished somewhat. Masturbation is different as before I was rubbing the head of my penis whilst rolling up and down my foreskin and that is not possible anymore. I now masturbate holding the shaft of my penis and of the tightness of my skin this works through to the head of my penis and this is very exiting. My wife definitely prefers the new model and says that she now can feel the head of my penis better than before. And what's more, we both love the looks of my new penis!
[M 18] I am a 18 year old male from England. As is common in this country (and for
that matter the majority of the world) circumsision is something only
practiced for religious reasons, and as such I, like nearly every other man
that is neither Jewish or American, have an unchopped penis.
Updated 4/7/00 [M] I was circumcised 8 years ago. Growing up I was very self-conscious about my "different penis." I married at age 23 to a lady age 21. She was sexually repressed (although we loved each other, and our marriage lasted 25 years).
Updated 3/3/00 [M] Few women realise how sensitive the foreskin is. When rolled down the
sensitive inner side is 10 square inches. It responds to stretching and
pulling rather than the gliding feeling of the head. Women always go for the
head, I guess because its a bit like their clitoris. Both can produce an
orgasm either separately or combined; in combination its definitely 1+1=3.
Circumcised men can really only have half the pleasure.
Updated 11/1/99 With a real horror story. I post it as he wrote it to me. [M]
Updated 9/3/99 [F 38] My current lover is uncircumsized. He is the first man that I have made love with and by far the best!! Rumor has it that being uncircumsised is not clean and contains an odor? I have yet to find this in him. It brings me pleasure to watch it change from excess skin to full erection in no time!! I watch as it moves....begins to stand up and rubs against my belly.....I think it's the most awesome, sexy and romantic feeling in the world!! He agrees.....it is more sensitive and has the ability to feel more things than an uncircumsised penis!!
Updated 6/1/99 [F] For ladies who want to know about uncircumsized
men! You ladies have a wonderful experience to look forward to.
[F 33] I was married to one... and it was not different at all for me.. but i
feel it was different for him.... and at 26 to be circumsized.... he did
notice a difference in how it felt.
[F] My former husband was circumcised. My lover is not. I can tell you
that uncircumcised is absolutely the FINEST! I love the way his
foreskin slides down when he gets hard and ready for me. There is more
friction for him and more ummmm... for me. I love to play with the
foreskin whem I suck him. Just call it an "added attraction." Don't
let anyone tell you that unclipped is messy or dirty. It's not.
Hygeine is dependant on the individual. My love is squeaky clean and a
real joy. I love to see the unclipped man as he gets hard. There is
something very primal and exciting in that. Give me unclipped any
time. His pleasure is greater, and by that, I find myself coming just
over his pleasure.
Updated 5/1/99 [M] I'm an uncut male. My father and my two younger brothers are also uncut.
I'm so grateful that my dad refused the doctors. I don't remember why he
was uncircumcised... hmm - I'll ask him. I've learned from my experience
and conversations with peers during adolescence that the uncut penis is MUCH
more sensitive that the cut penis (in fact, it's actually painful to the
touch until the onset of puberty - or at least was in my case).
[F] I was a little
taken aback and surprised when I first discovered my boyfriend hadn't been
"snipped". But then I discovered that the foreskin was wonderful for
spontaneous hand jobs, as there is no other lubrication required. He was
very clean - he was aware of the potential odor and other problems, so I
never had a problem with how he tasted or smelled. The actual sex doesn't
really feel all that different, as once he was truly hard, the extra skin
would pull down towards the base of his head.
[M] It's difficult to compare what it would be like uncircumcised as I had a full circumcision in infancy. However, I suspect that foreskin removal does help regarding premature ejaculation. It has never been a problem for me except for a few occasions in my youth when I was inexperienced - and overexcited.
Updated 4/1/99 [F]
I had a long term relationship with a man who was not circumsized.
Personally, I would prefer a man who is circumsized. Spontaniety is not
usually a good idea if you plan to have oral sex. With the foreskin
covering the penis oders tend to build beneath the skin which prove to be
rather unpleasant and to which we can be totally turned off. Other than
that, there isn't any difference.
[F]My husband was un-circumcised when we were first married. We enjoyed wonderful love making, but he was kind of forced to be circumcised later on as he had an injury that left scaring & it began to bother him. After he had the surgery, our love making became even better. For me it did as I could feel the ridges on the head of his penis when he entered me. When I nibbled the head of his penis it was more of an enjoyment for him. My husband felt much more confident about how he looked nude after having it done also. So yes, we both felt the difference.
[F]When my husband & I met 20 years ago, he was not circumcised. It was
actually a lot of fun. There was alot of 'extra skin' around the head,
and his made it possible to twist and twirl my fingers around the head,
but for medical reasons, He was circumcised at the ripe old age 26,
and as far as I'm personally concerned, it hasn't effected me.... but I
do miss the skin.... but I dot have the irritation and infections like
before....
[M]I am an uncircumcised man and can tell you that some women are surprised when they see that I am like that. But most are intrigue and like the way the foreskin goes back and forth. Some can feel the difference and others can't. I believe it depends on the individual.
There is a very appropriate book on this subject called "Sex As Nature Intended It" by Kristen O'Hara with Jeffrey O'Hara, published by Turning Point Publications, PO Box 486, Hudson, MA 01749. They have a website at: www.SexAsNatureIntendedIt.com and used copies are available through Amazon and Albris.
Please Note: I have no connection with this book or the publisher. I purchased my copy on eBay and realized what a mistake we had made, and how blessed I was to have parents who did not have me cut, like they did my 2 brothers. (I was born in early 1944, D-Day had not yet occurred and victory in WWII was far from certain. My dad and brothers were cut, and he felt someone should survive if Hitler was to win.)
For what it's worth, years ago, when we were still having sex, my wife and I were discussing the difference in her experience with her previous husband, who was cut and myself, and she agreed there is definitely a positive benefit for her, in terms of the "slide-n-glide" effect of the uncut penis, that O'Hara describes in her book. She had vaginismus from his circumcised head continually "scraping" the inside of her vagina, whereas with me, she had none of that. So, at least for her, being uncut was a real plus for her.
The bottom-line for me is, DO NOT have your sons circumcised for any reason!
The link to the book's website is:
Then, while wanking one night, I decided to make a big effort to get my
foreskin to retract, and yippee!, I finally got my knob out in the fresh
air (I nearly said 'daylight', but this was under-the-blanket stuff!)
My knob was now exposed for the first time ever, but my foreskin, having
been forced back, was stretched really tight behind the flare of the
glans of my fairly thick prick - so tight I thought I'd do damage! I was
afraid it would just split, there and then, but it just about survived,
with my finger and thumb squeezing tight round the groove, to stop the
pulsing and twitching of my shaft doing serious damage! When I'd cum and
my erection had slackened off a bit I moved my foreskin back over my
knob, feeling so pleased with myself - this was definitely going to add
to the fun of playing with my cock.
Never looked back after that moment - over a few weeks, whenever I
wanked I kept on playing with it, pulling it back and fore and
stretching it gradually until it got nice and loose, which meant I could
slip it back easily, however leaving a VERY sensitive knob. This caused
me to change my wanking technique a bit and after a few years I decided
I would 'wear' it pulled back all the time. As the books say, permanent
exposure reduces the sensitivity of my knob, and wanking is just great
with all that lovely soft skin to move around. It is the best of both
worlds - a nice shiny easy-to-clean knob with lots of loose skin to play
with! Circumcised men miss so much! My foreskin does sometimes slip
'forward' and this feels a bit strange. Sometimes I will leave it like
that for a while, but more usually I will pull it back straightaway - it
doesn't feel 'right' otherwise.
Since I was able to retract my foreskin cleanliness has never been an
issue, as it is easy (and fun! [evil grin]) to pull it right back and
give it a good soap and rinse, before drying off. But why wasn't I told
when I was much younger that foreskins HAVE to be retractable, for both
cleanliness and enjoyment! I could have got it back much easier when my
cock still had some growing to do!
I certainly made sure our son, from an early age, knew what needed to be
done.
sex better or not,i have had 5 lovers with foreskins...unfortunately my husband is skinless he had it cut when we were dating due to it splitting every time we had intercourse..sex is so much better with a foreskin ed man i miss the felling of a shining helmet penetrating me as the skin folds back at my entrance i think its more manly in appearance my husband misses his skin to he has to use cream to master bate its just not a real cock but he is a good love maker but i do crave a hole cock now and again in the form of my husband's friend.
I usually include a fun time in the shower or soak in the tub as a part of our foreplay so the smell and ‘cheese’ of an uncut phallus has never been a problem for me. What is tremendous fun and always interesting is giving oral sex and hand jobs to an uncut penis. My man’s penis is fortunately thick and so it has a very well-defined head. He also has a longish foreskin and a huge turn-on for me is to see his swollen head just peeking out of its hood even when he is fully erect. For a BJ, I seldom start by pulling down the skin to expose the cockhead and my tongue explores his frenulum and shaft after taking him whole into my mouth. Just seeing the full extent of his head exposed after pulling back the skin is erotic is slightly scary and very exciting all at the same time. Feeling the flared helmet open out and pushing into me (we call it the unbudding of his flower) is super and excites us both.
The things I have read about uncut lovers being more gentle and sensual during the fuck are thankfully not in my experience. I mostly like having vigorous sex and once lovemaking is in full swing an uncut cock feels no different to a cut one. What we have found though (and we both really enjoy this teasing build up to full thrusting), is if we leave the cock unlubed before penetration and as only I am slippery inside, I then get to have the fabulous sensation of the head unbudding and flaring into my opening. He begins with the foreskin pressed right up against my lips and then his steady penetration slowly opens the phallus into me. Later, when the fuck is well underway and my juices lube the entire phallus, the whole shaft moves in and out. Neither my lover nor I have ever noticed that his cock just moves in and out of its own hood during a fuck. I am quite tight but still the lube doesn’t allow for the head to slip back into its hood. Once my lips part the head from its hood it stays out to move against my insides.
Occasionally I have a colonic as we both enjoy bareback anal, but we mostly use condoms for anal and then I cannot tell if a cock is cut or not. If it is bareback and we are both ready, my lover pushes as much of the hood forward against my opening as possible and I can get to be hugely excited by feeling the flaring bud growing into me as my opening parts the head from its hood. My lover knows I just love that first unbudding and so he occasionally treats me by pulling out about midway thru’ an anal fuck, quickly strips off the condom and pulls back his hood to apply extra lube to the head. He again covers the whole head with foreskin, but because I will still be open and slippery, he can even push some of the hood into me before he pushes in further and I get to feel his head flaring inside of my anus. If he repeats this once or twice we get so excited and both cum very quickly. I guess a cut cock can do the same, but picturing the helmet progressively leaving its covering and exposing its full majesty whilst I fell it enter me is real pleasing.
From not being very interested in uncut sex I can say that there are some fabulous and real special things about the uncut penis.
The real question that should be being asked is does anybody have the right to alter another persons body in such a way without their consent, without them being able to weigh the risks for themselves. My sex life has been virtually ruined from the beginning and I didn't even realize it. I'm 50 now and only realized about 5 or six years ago that my sexual problems stem from a botched circumcision. The realization that it didn't have to be this way, that there isn't any valid reason for cutting an infants genitalia, that the foreskin is actually a very important part of ones anatomy has been devastating.
As for the arguments about preference, that some women prefer mutilated to unmutilated, well that should be up to the individual, whether they want to mutilate themselves for someone else's love or not. In my opinion someone that requires that you mutilate your body for them isn't worth loving in the first place.
Anyway I realize this isn't really your area of expertise or what your about but if it should come up I hope you will bear these considerations in mind. The fact that a lot of guys that don't know what they're missing have no complaints is not a validation of this practice. I think it's sort of like the fact that Gallo sells allot more wine than Dom Perignon doesn't mean that it's better, just that that's what most folks have available. When it comes to the whole world most men (90%+) are not cut and I don't see waiting lines of guys begging for this procedure. On another note regarding the recent hype out of Africa about possible reductions in HIV transmission. First I would say that the studies are flawed, we will have to wait till these men die and then assess whether it protected them from transmission for their whole life, or is it the fact that they are taking other measures as well to prevent infection(i.e. wearing condoms, the whole concept that it somehow protects you is only valid if you're not using condoms in the first place) secondly these are adult cuts, the adult gets to decide for himself if he wants this done, which is a totally different issue.
However, my mother had a lover who was uncut. How do I know ? We had no swimming pool in the little town I grew up in, only a lake to swim in. There was a changing room, one for men and another for women. In the late '40's and early '50's there was no modesty or concern about abuse. So I saw this man when he changed from street clothes into his swim suit.
What an UGLY FORESKIN he had. It covered his entire penis and was shriveled up at the end of his cock which was about 7 inches long when soft.
I for the life of me was unable to see what my mother saw in his cock other than it must have been a good fuck. I don't know if she sucked it or not, but I sure hope she made him wash it off first if she did, for if he didn't pull the foreskin back when he pissed, it was going to have a urine smell to it when she sucked it. Of course, she was drunk most of the time and may not have even smelled it if he didn't wash it.
When I was young I could experience exquisite feelings from the remaining inner foreskin and the frenulum remnant, but, alas, that sensitivity is now gone and there is just not much feeling any more. My penis has turned into a dead stick !! It will still perform, but needs a lot of persuasion !!
I firmly believe that the circumcision of infants is both ethicaly and moraly wrong. If an adult chooses to have himself circumcised, then I have to assume that he has fully considered the ramifications, and that is his decision.
Is this solely as a consequence of me being in Britain, a place where the idea of secular circumcisions being performed upon healthy children has been seen as bizarre for nearly half a century now? Well, not completely: the principal reason is that I find the foreskin astoundingly sensitive and an integral part of my sexual existance.
Foreskin allows increased sensitivity of the glans through coating it in a double-layer of skin, this protects the head's skin from exposure to friction from clothes or (for all of you naturists out there) the elements. However this is only part of the pleasure which it provides: the foreskin itself is highly erogenous and the feeling of rubbing it along the head using the gliding motion is simply astounding. Furthermore the foreskin helps spread the penis' lubrication out better by forming a pocket to capture and spread this fluid, a highly useful function and one which means that the notion of requiring lubricant to masturbate seems alien to me.
Finally the matter of climaxing must be mentioned: although retracted orgasms do allow for a potent spurt leaving the foreskin across the urethra during ejaculation is pleasure on another level, although you miss the complete satisfaction of release if I want groan-inducing, leg-jerking, toe-curling ecstacy then foreskin I keep myself wrapped up. The feeling of pleasure wrapped up in pleasure is simply exquisite, every moment is laced with added intensity as everything can be felt with a far heightened sensitivity as the principle source of the joy is encapsulated with further pleasure.
So much for "A little bit of skin" huh?
(Oh, and incidentally, it is actually a prepuce, meaning a double layered organ, of immense complexity including vast numbers of blood vessels and which in total consists at least 50% of the male genital skin.)
So then, what is my view on circumcision being performed upon infants? Well, predictably enough I reckon that in addition to being in defiance of liberty and resulting in the permanant disfigurement of the penis (besides foreskin restoration, and even that can not get rid of the scars) it is also a major hinderence to the full expression of male sexuality.
If you are a parent then please, please leave this personal decision up to the person it overwhelmingly has the largest impact upon.
If you are a circumcised man unhappy with it? Look into restoration, the lovely fellows at Foreskin Restoration Chat ( foreskinrestorationchat.info/ ) will be able to help you out, apparently it is a lot less scary and uncomfortable than you would imagine.
If you are an adult considering having it done? Well your body is yours to modify or refrain from modifying however you please. But remember that the main reason for that is that you are the only one who is going to have to live with the consequences.
So, as the Internet was just becoming a useful information source, I went
searching for someone to circumcise my penis and ran into a medical
profession more inclined to laughter and ridicule than to understand, help,
advise or inform. "Circumcision? Why now, at your age, you should have had
it done years ago!" Well, I didn't, but I want it done now. Then came loads
of discouragement - "You'll lose some of the finest sensations", etc. etc.
It took weeks to find someone sensible who would do the job.
No matter what people say, I believe that in Western society circumcision is
performed primarily for aesthetic reasons. That's certainly why I did it. I
much prefer a pretty penis to a turkey's neck.
I spent a summer in Europe, and dated a few men who were uncircumcised. It is something I would never do again, and in fact when I met my husband I asked him point blank if he was cut or uncut, for if he were uncut, I would not have wanted to marry him.
An uncut man, no matter how much he bathes, cannot get rid of that awful smegma odor...there is always a faint smell of it, even if he just showered a few hours ago.
I was totally unprepared when I spent the summer in Europe...until then, I did not know that most European men are uncut! I assumed they were like American men. It was a very rude awakening.
First I noticed that the sensitivity I had beforehand was slowly returning. Before I was cut, it was so painful that the slightest touch to the exposed glans would cause me literally to jump out of my seat. I was getting worried, so I called the urologist who directed me to put a gauze pad with antibiotic ointment over it, which I managed to do. I fell asleep, and awoke in a couple of hours, needing to go to the bathroom. I was horribly shocked when I saw that the pad was covered in blood, and pulling it off was one of the most painful things I have ever felt. The sensitivity became more and more noticeable, so the next day I called the urologist again, and he came to my house (since I could barely walk) and took off the bandage. The swelling was very surprising. The next few days were among the most painful of my life. My glans was so sensitive that I had to wear a robe all the time, and hold it open in front of me, I could not stand any contact. I slept a maximum of 2 hours a night with the exception of one night: when I had to go to the emergency room because of the horrible pain, and received morphine which allowed me to finally sleep. The only other time I have left my house in the past 2 weeks was to go see a different urologist for their opinion as to the situation. These two trips were horribly embarrassing, as I had to walk in my robe, holding it out in front of me, so it was obvious to all observers what my problem concerned. It has been almost two weeks, and the pain is still present as the swelling on the underside rubs against my scrotum. Until recently I couldn't even soak it in water (as several sources advised) much less allow the glans to make contact with anything. I still cannot wear underwear and am sitting in my house with an open robe. Walking hurts, and when the size of the scrotum or penis changes, the pain is unbearable, even with lar! ge doses of Vicodin. The sensitivity of the glans seems to be improving, but very slowly.
In short, it seems that most people have relatively few problems with their circumcisions, but some may suffer terribly, at least for a while. Some days I was very close to committing suicide to get away from the pain and discomfort. Also, I have to bear the embarrassment of explaining to my friends why I am not able to do anything for weeks, and why they cannot come to my house.
To whoever reads this, I hope if you decide to undergo the surgery your experience is much better than mine, however, and I can't stress this enough: IF YOU HAVE A SENSITIVE GLANS, CONSULT A DOCTOR BEFORE YOU MAKE YOUR DECISION!
I dont want to frighten people away from getting circumcised, but do want to make sure that if someone undergoes it, they know that the results can mean several weeks of inactivity, I was lucky enough to have had it done during the summer, but someone else might have to miss weeks of work for it. I hope it goes better for everyone else than it did for me. Note - I don't usually post letters from underage folks but I thought this letter important to all those who are considering such an operation. All opinions are welcome.
Over the years, my foreskin had become quite
stretched, (although strangely, it was never easy to
pull over the glans) and I didn't like the way my
penis looked when flaccid since the foreskin was very
wrinkly. Also, I was having problems with premature
ejaculation. The foreskin and glans were so sensitive
that it didn't take much to make me ejaculate. I had
read that circumcision reduces sensitivity to a degree
and decided to take the plunge.
It took about 6 weeks to fully heal from the
procedure. Per my request, the doctor removed the
inner foreskin almost entirely and placed the scar
about 1/4" from the glans. I wish he could have made
it even closer for a cleaner appearance. I didn't
realize it at the time, but I should have had the
frenulum removed as well.
When flacid, the skin is loose, but does not touch
the glans at all. When erect, the skin on my penis is
taught and smooth, but not overly so.
Masturbation has definitely changed. Whereas before I
could masturbate easily with just my hand by moving
skin back and forth, it is difficult to do so without
lubrication of some sort. This is because the skin
doesn't move, instead the hand creates friction along
the stationary skin of the shaft and glans. I can do
it dry, but the glans can get sore. As a result, I
masturbate mostly in the shower. Luckily, for some
reason, my wife is better at masturbating me dry than
I am, but it still can be difficult to bring me to
climax without lubrication.
I have I found that after circcumcision, orgasms are
much more intense when masturbating. This is probably
due to the direct stimulation of the glans. I love how
it feels. Intercourse itself feels slightly different
since there's no skin sliding back and forth on the
penis. The feeling of friction is more direct for me
but my wife doesn't feel any difference. However,
although she hasn't said anything, I know she enjoys
giving head much more than before - probably because
my penis is always clean and there's no foreskin
bunching up like before.
Even better, although it feels good in a different
way, I no longer have a recurring premature
ejaculation problem. I can go much, much longer before
ejaculating. I guess there was just enough reduction
in sensitivity to make a positive difference.
All in all, I'm happy I got circumsised. The benefits
of cleanliness, better appearance, more intense
orgasms and better endurance make up for slightly
reduced sensitivity.
Masturbating and receiving a hand job have changed considerably since being circumcised. Prior to the operation I could masturbate easily without lubrication but now I always have to use some kind of oil or cream. Its the same when receiving a hand job too.
Also I now experience extreme sensitivity around the head of my penis when I ejaculate and although I love receiving a hand job, I cannot stand to be touched in this area as I cum. This can create difficulties sometimes but my partner has perfected her technique to bring me to orgasm with her hand avoiding the head at the critical moment. I certainly have no regrets about being circumcised other than leaving it so late.
We both now appreciate my circumcision. She thinks it looks better and it's
certainly cleaner; like I don't have to nip off and wash it first if she
invites a spontaneous quickie in the kitchen, or if we fancy an early
morning repeat of last night's romp.
I tend to believe that circumcision is not medically necessary. But it
sure helped me when I got circumcised. I don't feel like I've lost any
sensitivity, and I sure do like how it looks. It turned out to be a
very good choice for me.
To join the most comprehensive information-based site I've seen on adult circumcision, go to: Circlist a Yahoo group.
It's better to join via the Yahoo Group than just to get email. My membership took several days to come through; there are no questions or anything. Members can see all messages, photos and information, as well as participate in the discussion. There's serious medical advice given by doctors who work in the area. You're expected to make contributions or to participate in discussion.
There are lots of other related groups in Yahoo; 'Circumcised as Adult' and 'Adultcircumcision' are a couple more. These can be joined immediately from Yahoo Groups. They're pretty much like Circlist, but less active. In all cases, the discussion is sensible and informative. The medics are active on both these; one even replied to something I wrote for 'C as Adult', and his comments were most unexpected! Do have a read!
The best website I have found on circumcision is Circlist.com complete with information, links, and pictures of the various styles of circumcision.
This subject seems to polarize some people, either being in favor of it or very much against it. My question concerned a woman's preference either for the removal of the frenulum or leaving it intact. The disadvantage of leaving it intact is that in a rough session of sex or masturbation the frenulum can tear or rupture which is a very painful and bloody experience which might require stitching. That would surely put a damper on the festivities.
When I was 34, a well-meaning urologist who didn't understand chlamydia yet, (this was 1979) suggested that the only cure for repeated 'infections' was circumcision. Later on I found that the real source was my first wife, long gone by then. At least my new partner was understanding, we both took the meds, and that was that. I am 59 now and learning to live without a foreskin, but never really accepting it.
The doctor never told me, or maybe never knew that he would be taking away many pleasures along with all the nerves snipped off with the foreskin.
The operation was a disaster. My erections were two inches shorter, and very painful. Later I had plastic surgery to correct some of this, but skin transplants are no substitute for the real thing.
After circumcision, sensation in intercourse was like trying to taste gourmet cooking with over 75% of your taste buds anesthetized. Most of the sensation was gone. After many months, I have some sensation at the cut line, and in the bulb just before orgasm. Masturbation was almost impossible -- no slack at all in the skin on the shaft. The minute by minute reminder is the constant irritation at the end of my penis
whenever it brushes something, and the dry bulb that has lost most of its sensation. Boxer shorts have helped. The foreskin does have a vital protecting job as well as providing sensual rewards.
If I had known about the consequences, I wouldn't have been
circumcised. Try losing all your color vision and sight in one eye. It's about the same.
The real issue here is male hygiene; and guys, we all could use a tune-up. While we are at it, let's stop teasing guys in the locker room that pull back their foreskin to clean up when showering.
Considering circumcision, don't do it. You and your male children need that foreskin.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that any man should be proud to have a penis, in any shape or form, and furthermore, be proud to be a man.
Remember gentlemen, keep your head held high and walk tall.
Up until world war one, it was not widely practised in Europe, USA and
European/British colonies. Apparently during WW1, being the first war that
involved trench warfare. This involved being stuck in muddy, wet, unhealthy
conditions for weeks and months on end. With no opportunity to wash any part
of their body, and less so the foreskin. This allowed 'trenchrot' to set in. This apparently was a sort of gangrenous
rot under the foreskin due to not washing and extremely unhealthy conditions
for very extended periods of time. Immediate field circumcisms were order
for all soldiers. The soldiers came back from the war with the story and the perception was
that foreskins are unhealthy. They had their sons cut as well and the myth
still continued. That is now why the numbers are dropping because the myth
is dying out and the historical basis for cutting off the foreskin is not as
strong anymore.
I entirely agree that an unwashed penis and foreskin is a gross thing, but
an unwashed vagina is not exactly the most sweetly fragrant place I know
either, but it is not within my rights to request that a woman cut off the
bits that may either offend my eye, or be the contributor an unpleasant
smell.
The real problem is not the foreskin or the labia, but the persons own
hygienic standards.
India has the highest rate of cancer of the foreskin in the world and it is not a country that routinely cuts off foreskins.
But due to its poor hygiene standards reflects what can happen when
foreskins are not washed for extended periods of time.
It is really that hard for parents to teach little boys to wash under their
foreskins? After all, we teach our little girls to keep themselves clean, why must we
blame a piece of skin for someone's poor hygiene standards?
It seems unfortunate to me that the land of the brave and the free are
butchering their men from an early age based on laughably ridiculous old
wive's tales that your nation's medical institutions are passing off as
modern medicine. Infact, this is something that the rest of the world finds
almost humorous, and at the same time very sad. I have many american friends
who study here at my university, and when we sit around playing cards and
drinking and listening to the relaxing sounds of Michael Bolton and Billy
Ray Cyrus, they are very upset and very nearly brought to tears when we tell
them of all the added benefits of being uncircumsized. The fact that we
don't need lubrication to masturbate, the level of sensitivity that the
foreskin brings, the added excitement it can bring to love-making, both for
us and our partners.
I go out with an american girl. As i am the first person she has gone out
with who was not an american, i also am the first person she has dated to
have a regular, unmodified penis. As such, she was at a loss of both what to
do with it and what it could do for her. Working it through together, she
has found it to be both more exciting for her to look at and when we have
sex. She has found all the tales that have been perpetuated to her by the
american culture to be both untrue and unfair. There are no hygenic
differences, and uncircumsized men are not more likely to prematurely
ejaculate. In fact, she has found the exact opposite.
I think what is most distressing from a non-american viewpoint is the fact
that so many american's I have met, both male and female, are unaware that
the majority of the world's penis' are left unchopped. I couldn't believe
how many american's assumed that we'd all do it the "american" way. I'm
afraid not. We like our men unbutchered. After all, this is a free country,
and we're not prone to enforcing the defacement of the human body on
unfounded circumstances.
I think your nation's practice of butchering men is intolerable, and my
feelings go out to all those who are missing an important and integral part
of their manhood. I sympathise with them, and hope that they can help push
forward a change in american culture that will benefit future generations of
american men everywhere, and let them exist normally, with foreskin,
alongside the rest of the world's unchopped penis'.
Her younger sister, 19 at the time, was becoming very curious, and began asking my wife some very explicit questions about me. She then started teasing me about needing help to go to the bathroom. We were at her apartment once when she asked my wife to go with me to make certain I didn't mess up her bathroom. My wife told her that it was her problem.
We ended up in the bathroom together. I don't know who was more scared. Eventually, she said she would hold my penis if I removed it from my pants. I took a deep breath and complied. I was already erect, with the head fully exposed. The following week it happened again. This time I was limp. I will never forget the look on her face as she looked at my foreskin and watched my erection form. She had never seen an uncircumsised penis before. I became so aroused, I ejaculated (an event she had never seen before, either) as soon as she placed her hand around it.
She told her roommate about the incident, who refused to believe her. I let her hold me with her roommate watching me. She had also never seen an uncircumsised penis. Over the years, I let my sister-in-law show my penis to many of her friends. She would flick my tip real hard with her index finger to make me lose my erection, so these ladies could watch the foreskin go back and forth as it would go from erect to limp and to erect again. Almost all of them liked it better than the cut varieties they were accustomed to. Quite a few of them thought it was funny looking and laughed watching it perform. But they also wanted to touch it and play with it and masterbate it until it squirted. Even those who thought it was ugly looking wanted to play with it, and did so.
I hope this will encourage more women to be willing to be honest and step up and say they like uncircumsised penises for their appearance, and the added sexual fun and pleasure it gives them.
When I was 39, I decided on a circumcision.
"Why?" you might ask.
Because I used to get so aroused when my foreskin would retract and expose
the sensitive tip to rubbing against my underwear. I thought, "Wow! If I get
that foreskin chopped off I can keep a perpetual hard-on!"
First, the surgery:
It took 33 (yes, thirty-three) shots of Lidocaine all around the base of my
penis to sufficiently deaden the nerves. After that, I didn't feel much pain,
just some mild discomfort as he kept cutting back farther and farther.
Second, the recovery:
The next morning, I got up to take a leak and passed out. After regaining
consciousness, I went back to the doc who said, "Oops; one of the stitches
didn't hold. That's why you were bleeding so much. You have two choices: I can
either give you 33 more shots OR you can just grin and bear it while I take
another tuck with the needle and thread."
Well, I thought; 33 little sticks or one big one (forgetting that one tuck
equals two piercings -- one in the skin and one in the head). "Skip the
anesthesia, Doc. I can take it!"
I took it, all right. Twice! There was nothing wrong with those nerves now!
Third, the healing:
Boy, those early morning hard-ons were something. I kept wondering if another
stitch might pull out and, as the pain began, I became soft very fast. I was
right about the constant caressing of the sensitive head of my penis against my
clothing, the sheets, the shower, the air. I DID have an partial erection a lot
of the time. Cool!
But, wait -- it seems tight, like there's more penis than there is skin! I
can't masturbate as well anymore! I have to ease up on my grip because, instead
of a foreskin that rolls up and down with my hand, I have to let my hand glide
over the head. Oh, no!
While it was healing, I was away from my wife on business. When I returned
home, I was realllllly eager to try it out! Then when I did she said, "Honey,
it's pretty, but...I don't think it's quite as big as it used to be."
Fourth, the aftermath:
The pleasurable feel of the head against my clothing, the sheets, the shower,
the air, etc., went away quickly as the sensitive skin thickened from the
constant rubbing. Now the only way I can masturbate to completion is with a
strong vibrator.
I fully support Dr. Dean Edell's campaign against male genital mutilation. I
wish I hadn't agreed to allow our sons to be circumcised. And after my
experience, I tried with all my might to keep our grandsons uncut, but was
overruled.
Well, there's my tale, a lot longer than my pecker.
In 1999, over sixty percent of Newborn Males are no longer subjected
to mutilation at their natural state at birth.
The sensation's for a pussy are beyond doubt, the ultimate in arousal
and satisfaction.
The old wives tale of Cancer of the Cervix, is grounded in Doctor's who are
trimmed to the rim, not a medical case is thereby proven. Better Yet, consult a Cervical Oncologist in your area for proof!
Should your conviction be of a Religious nature, consult a modern Bible and
reference Circumcission.
I think the whole problem of premature ejaculation is one of not being aware
of the sensations in your body. I mean; really be RIGHT HERE when you're
touching your partner. Otherwise, you'll be concentrating too much on the
sensations in your penis, which will quickly bring you to orgasm. Besides,
your partner's body and reactions are much more interesting than your damn
penis!
I have a theory that uncircumcised men have more sensitivity on and around
the head of their penis because the foreskin protects it when wearing
jeans, etc. I haven't been able to prove if it's true or not, but would be
curious to see what others think.
I find that provided I can avoid ejaculation in the first few seconds of intercourse, easy enough in a permanent relationship, I can enjoy the stimulation and pleasure of intercourse until my wife has had several climaxes. After which I can 'let go' in a glorious burst of pleasure.
I find that a lot of the pleasure of love making is in bringing my wife to multiple climaxes and enjoying her glow and love for me afterwards.
I once asked my wife if circumcision made any difference from her point of view. She felt that it didn't and that what really mattered was how she felt about the guy on the other end of the penis and what he did with it. Of course she might have just said that to keep her husband happy but I am fairly confident that that is her real opinion.
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