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A visitor asked whether the letters posted here all depict true events. Frankly, I've no idea and I've no way of finding out. The letters I post are for your entertainment and thus their veracity is irrelevant. Read and enjoy what letters you choose and skip the ones that aren't to your taste. And take the advice with a boulder of salt. I try not to post anything I know to be incorrect but I don't know everything (more's the pity).

I've received a lot of letters recently asking questions about dating. That's a little out of my area of expertise. I haven't dated in the 25 years that Ed and I have been together and the rules have changed dramatically in that time. I don't think I'm the right person to ask.

Erections during Medical exams is one of the busiest forums on my site. I've added a letter from a female doctor on the topic. Very helpful reading to all those who become embarrassed. 7/08

A man wrote a great letter about women and their obsession with appearances. I added it to my page on body image. Please read and think about what we're telling our daughters. 7/08

We haven't had a good story about toys recently but I just added a new one, this about using a vibrator. More, please? 7/08

A man wrote about using Aneros during ordinary activities. Anyone tried it? Comments? 4/08

I reposted an old page on nude photography and several new letters. Comments? 7/08

Another visitor wrote about exercising nude . Sounds delicious. Comments? 6/08

A man wrote about a technique he and his wife use. He calls it "edging", getting close to orgasm and then pulling back. Interesting reading - and trying. And how about Twitching - a delicious idea. Comments? 7/08

I've added a great letter on "loving bondage" to the bondage page. If this is new to you, think about beginning simply. There are sections on bondage in most of my non-fiction books for guidance. 1/08

I got an interesting letter on locker room behavior. Any more responses? A few people wrote. 1/08

I got a letter about the emphasis on performance in the bedroom. I've always advised folks to keep the fun in lovemaking. I welcome your letters. 8/07

I've included a great new essay on sex education in America with others. Your thoughts are always welcome. 4/08

Help my visitors.

Please write to me with answers for visitors' questions. All responses posted are completely anonymous! And PLEASE include your sex and age. When I don't get answers within a month or two, I remove the question so when the mood strikes you, please write. JEL

Anyone strip for their partner - or enjoy watching their partner strip? One man wrote of how he'd like to watch 7/08

What do women like most about having two men make love to them? Read one man's question , then please write. 5/08

Does anyone have experience with labial piercing? One visitor is curious.

I open this topic up to all your responses. Who makes the first move (in the bedroom or out of it) and what is it?

What type of contraception do you use and why? Let's hear from folks with different opinions. Only two people have written so far, the most recent with his vasectomy story. More? 5/08

Has anyone tried to raise the idea of a threesome with his wife or husband? One man wants to try. Check out the page on threesomes 6/08

Have any men out there used the male form of Kegels (exercising your pc muscle) to control their ejaculations? How does it work? Be specific to help my visitor. One man wrote with great information. 4/08

A man asks whether any of you ladies enjoy making out while watching porn. What type? Guys, I'd like to hear from you too. One person wrote - and I put it on an old page about X rated Movies. 3/08

I have many seniors visiting and one man wonders what the average frequency of sex is after 65. I've added a new, well thought out and well researched response on sex and aging 4/08

Re:Aging - I've also reposted a page on sex and aging including aging penises.

A man asks about having intercourse when a woman has her period. I would love to hear more from either gender. 7/08

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I got a letter on Public Displays of Affection. More Stories? 1/08

I've posted a letter from a visitor about exhibitionism. I'd love to hear from you about both doing it and watching others. 4/08

I'm opening the topic of prostitution for all comments, pro and con. As you know if you've read my books I see no problem with a woman who consents to see something that belongs to her, even if it's her body. I would really like to read your comments. Click over and see what folks wrote, then add your comments. 2/08

A visitor wonders what you would have done differently if you had known then what you know now. Click over and read what one person wrote. How about you? 5/08

Any men have suggestions about keeping up the sex drive after removal of the prostate? I got a few letters including one letter with an interesting medical treatment. As always, I welcome more comments. 5/08

Ladies - do you need to clean up after a man ejaculates inside you or do you enjoy the left-over wetness? Click over 7/08

A visitor wants to know whether any men out there tried oral sex with another man in midlife or later? Click over and please send your experiences (or your fantasies) too. 2/08

A woman complains that she gets too wet during sex thus lacking good friction. Anyone have the same problem - any solutions out there? Thanks for responding with good advice and the question about whether it is truly a problem. 4/07

How much have you told your spouse about your past sexual experiences? Is telling a good idea? Let me know how you feel. 11/07

A man who loves to perform oral sex wonders whether a woman is turned off by kissing a man who tastes of her. Thoughts? Several women wrote 2/08 How about you?

Do you sleep in the nude? PJs? Underwear? How about your partner? Please include your gender and your partner's. How about sleeping in night gown without panties? Some answers 3/08

My Yahoo group got into a discussion about sexual furniture. On that note, here's a link to an old forum on swings. Here's one someone found Dream Lover Chair . Another visitor recommends a company called "Liberator" that sells sex furniture/cushions. Anyone have any other suggestions? 1/08

Oldies but Goodies

How about your most memorable sexual partner. Anyone? A few people wrote including several men about their wives. How fabulous. 4/08

A regular visitor sent me an interesting story about a missed opportunity. Got any stories about your past? We'd all love to hear your stories. 7/07

What type of undies do you wear - and/or like to look at on your partner? Thongs? Tidy Whities? Sexy panties? Visitors wrote. I'd like to know what you think too. I've included a man's take on women wearing bras and men wearing ladies panties. 2/08

I've posted a letter about Early Morning Experiences 3/07

Originally a man wrote of his sexual fantasy.Click here and read so many fantasies it spills over onto three pages. Updated 5/08 Hot stuff!!! Yours???

Do women find penises nice to look at or only useful? What did you think (or expect) the first time you saw one? A man wants to know. Click over and see what folks wrote. Updated 11/07

Folks wrote about whether penises were good to look at - how about vaginas? Are they pretty? Click over to a new item called Vulva Variations. 1/08

An amazing man sent me a fascinating letter about his relationship with his wife. Since it didn't fit into any one forum I posted it on its own. This couple has Quite a Relationship. Reactions? I'd love to them. 5/08

A woman writes that she enjoys watching men masturbate. Anyone know of a 'straight' site she can visit? Here are the ones recommended so far: Jackinworld.com Also try A bad boy.com This site is primarily gay, but offers close-up pictures of men masturbating and be sure to click on the videos of men masturbating. There are no annoying popups and this site is totally free with no adult ID Checks. One woman adds See My Orgasm . Recently a couple added these: Advanced Masturbation" shows methods and techniques. You can also see movies of ejaculations here
One last site is the Documentary of Free Penis Pictures" and there are pictures of Semen and Sperm Ejaculation as well.

What's the wildest sex you ever had? I thought I ask for entries from you all. Click Here to read their hot stories, then send your own experiences. Phew!!!! 1/08 with a great new Christmas story. I've posted a few New Years' Sex stories too 2/08.

A male visitor asked whether men really like larger breasts. What about bisexual women? I've combined this with another question - How do women feel about having their breasts admired? Does it stimulate? Annoy? Feedback please. I got several letters 11/07 Ancillary question - do women look at the bulge in men's shorts? One man wrote about the bulge. There's also a page on breasts, and breast play with a letter from a man who calls breasts Love Pillows. Updated 4/08

A man wonders about a kit to make a dildo from a cast of your own penis. Anyone know where to get this? Anyone ever tried it? You can at Clone Your Bone and Match Your Snatch or try Make your own dildo.com One man wrote about his experience. What a gas! 1/05

How about comments on Dominant/submissive relationships? Comments pro or con? Anyone ever been there, done that? One visitor recommended a site called the Ds garden. A good resource for information and for meeting a lot of friendly folks who can (and do) answer questions about their L/lifestyle choices. Click over and read. Updated 12/04

Making love in unusual places including on the beach and a few about making love outdoors. There are many such stories scattered on the site but are a few more including one about sky diving (hmmm) and in cars. Yours? Updated 7/08

I have received lots of wonderful Embarrassing Experiences that I thought I'd share. I'd love to read and post yours. As with everything I post, all letters are anonymous and, after you read some of the stories, you'll realize why. Updated 1/08

Here's an essay from a visitor I've called Good Sex at Any Age This is an essay about spicing up a long term relationship with comments about sex in later years. There are more letters in long term relationships Please add your thoughts. Updated 5/07 with some new ideas.

I've had several requests for info on Multiple Male Orgasms. I've reposted an old essay and lots of responses . See what folks had to say, then add your two cents . 11/06

Ladies - what are we doing to ourselves and our daughters??? Body Image Updated 7/08

Lovers' Feedback Forum

Visitors exchange information on varied topics with me. Please read, e-mail me and I'll add your comments, personal experiences and opinions. In most cases the responses are posted from the bottom up - with the newest postings at the top of the page so to read the entire forum, read from the bottom up.
Dating a 43 year old virginal man. Updated 3/06
On Aging Penises Updated 10/06
Anal Sex Updated 7/08
Bondage and Bondage Gear Updated 1/08
Do women look at other women's breasts? Updated 2/05
Ever been caught by your kids? How did you react? Updated 9/07
Circumcision Updated 2/08
Condoms - we know we should but... taking the chore out of using them Updated 5/07
Sex with Coworkers Updated 5/07
Cross Dressing and wearing women's clothing in general or women's panties in particular. I recently posted a few very elaborate tales. Updated 7/08
Cul de sac orgasms Updated 4/07
Is cybersex Cheating? updated 3/08
Deep Throating updated 5/08
Sex with and without Dentures updated 7/08
On Derriers updated 3/07
On Sexual Education in the US. updated 3/08
A relatively taboo topic Enemas. 11/07
Home made Erotic Books, tapes and Movies - updated 12/04
Ethnicity of partners. Preferences? 6/08
Facials Updated 11/06
Feet 6/08
Female Ejaculation Updated 11/07
Fetishes including recent ones on Ears and feet 7/08
The First Time you had sex - Nothing that might be construed as kiddie porn please Updated 3/08
On vaginal fisting. 2/05
Open Flys Updated 2/08
On Frequency Updated 11/06
Do straight men have Gay Fantasies Updated 5/08
Do women have Gay (lesbian) Fantasies? Updated 11/07
Genital waxing at home Updated 2/05
The "good old" hand job Updated 10/07
Sex and the handicapped Updated 7/08
High Heels, girdles etc Updated 3/08
Problems with others seeing your hubby nude Updated 10/07
Kegel Exercises Updated 2/06
The Sexual Side of Lactation There's new info - read everything with care and check with your doctor before trying anything!! updated 7/08
Lubes KY seems a little sticky and doesn't last particularly long. I recommended Astroglide or one from Adam and Eve's website. Suggestions from you? 1/08
Lycra Updated 1/06
Problems after a Mastectomy Updated 11/04 with the name of a great book and 2/05 with a link to a very helpful site.
Spicing up Masturbation - How-tos and much more including a Yahoo group and a new site. Updated 7/08
Medical Exams give you erections? So many men say YES! Updated 7/08 This is one of my busiest forums!!!
Massage Parlor Visits and Erotic Massages and stories of great massages. Updated 7/08
Do men have sensitive Nipples or want larger ones? I posted a letter from a man who climaxed from just nipple stimulatioin. You??? Updated 7/08
Enlarging nipples with Nipplette Clamps and large nipples and includes a site for nipple jewelry and a letter from a woman who doesn't like big nipples - Updated 6/07
Nooners - Updated 6/07
About ladies who go out with No Panties on- Updated 7/08
Spending non-sexual time nude - and dealing with kids. 6/08
Nudist Colonies and Nudism - Updated 7/08
Oral Sex - Updated 6/08
Orgasms - Updated 7/08 br>Help for folks with Overweight Partners - Updated 5/07
Peeking up women's skirts- Updated 9/07
The Penis Project a collection of photos of 100 ceramic penises. Let me know what you think. 9/07
the Perfect penis or vagina? 5/07
Phone Sex - Updated 5/05
Posing for nude Photos - Updated 7/08
Piercing Updated 5/07 and includes a letter from a nurse about reactions to piercings
Prostate Massage including a negative note on Aneros Updated 9/07 Also see the page on Aneros updated 5/08
Women with lots of Pubic Hair 1/08
On making out in Public Places 2/08
On Queefing or pussy farts. Embarrassing? Natural? 3/06
Reading Erotica including mine - Updated 1/05
On Role Playing Updated 9/04
Are you turned on by the smell of sex? How about smelling women's panties? Updated 7/08
On Semen Updated 4/07
Shaving 6/08 Including Brazilian Waxing 11/07
Does Size Does it really matter? In breasts or penises? 6/07
Spanking Updated 7/06
Spit or Swallow Updated 11/07
Storage of Sex Toys Updated 11/07
Using Strapons Updated 5/05
Swapping Updated 4/05
Strip Videos Updated 1/05
Talking Dirty and Verbal Stimulation Updated 7/07
Tantric Sex 2/06
On temptation. 7/07
Testosterone Cream 6/06
Threesomes and Moresomes updated 6/08
Thong Panties 8/06
Can you come from Thrusting alone? 7/06
Tickling as Foreplay 11/06
Toys Updated 7/08 This section also includes links to my pages on Aneros (5/08), Sybian and the Eroscilator.
Viagra, Cialis, Levitra etc Women have written too. Please no info about untested herbs and such - Updated 1/08
Watching and being Watched Updated 2/07 with another hot letter
Water Sports Updated 1/08

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